By the vegetarian lentil and pasta salads V and I hovered
uncomfortably with our paper plates, having arrived earlier than the
other conference participants, unable to endure the discordant euphoria
of the closing panel aftermath.
We had given up composing diplomatic probes and critiques after
watching L's many attempts --more artfully rendered than
ours-- fall on deaf or uncomprehending ears. The almost total inattention
to valences of race, class, or geopolitics at a technologies conference was
literally stunning. (I felt nauseous.) Feeling depressed that
queer studies were still being produced with such myopia, I poked
wearily at the hummus.
Another conference participant wandered into the office lobby and
approached with a friendly smile. "So, how did you like the
conference?"
We mumbled something non-committal with subterranean meaning. "Oh, it
was very educational."
It was true we had taken notes, tallying crimes and moments of
horror. ("How can he uncritically cite a 19th-century missionary to base
his understanding of 'premodern' fetishism, and then extrapolate from
that to discuss the alienation of First World gay white men with web
cams?!?" et cetera.)
She laughed and said over the fruit platter, "When I heard you were
from ethnic studies, I thought to myself, 'Uh oh, we won't be talking
about that today!'" She grinned, as if to say, Of course, we all know race has
no meaning or relevance in sexuality studies!
To remain as civil as possible I simply walked away from the
table, as if she hadn't said a word. In shock, V could only
think to say, "Well, we do women's studies too."
The other woman chirped cheerfully and without a trace of irony,
"Oh, that's great! I'm glad you got something out of the conference
then!"
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There is much more to be said, but this brief encounter pretty much
summed up the conference for me.